planning a party

I have never really been one to plan a party im usually the one to attend parties and drink all the alcohol i can. Well now the tables have turned and my famoly and i have hostin a praty for 60 plus heads, and let me tell you we are going crazy. If it's not getting all the stuff we want that kills us it will be each other. We all have different opinions about what should go where and what to we need and what should we do this when we can just do this. AHHHH I seriously want to pull my hair out. i just hope that when it comes time to party that i can actually party and enjoy myself. So my advise to everyone out there that is our that is thinking about planning a pary DON'T just hire someone who does it for a living, and you may be thinking but its so much money but i promise you the stress that you won't be dealing with is 100% worth it